July 13. 2010 by admin.

Fresh off of vacation, feeling replenished, and ready to give. Felt like the only Brooklyn resident on the whole island of Jamaica, so I had to rep my city in the place of my forefathers. I was feeling bad for a minute for not missing my town, but I needed this like water- to be rehydrated so I can become pliable again, workable again, and get the work done. So when you see my head down, walking swiftly by you, and taking rain checks- it isn’t you, it’s me… on my way to being the me I’m supposed to be.

Be dope,
KuTs

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June 17. 2009 by admin.

The Summer solstice is almost here, and I know most of us have one thing on our minds: “Let’s get crazy!” But we can’t forget how important the Summer can be for furthering yourself in your endeavors. Nothing is wrong with partying because if you know me, you know I enjoy a good time out with my peeps but it’s about learning how to party the adult way. GET your mind from down below… I’m talking about networking and partying with the right people, using your good times and turning them into better times to come. As I get older, the zest for being responsible for my future grows tremendously so I am just letting you guys in on steps I’m taking in my own life. But please, don’t be obnoxious with it. Don’t just seem eager to use what someone else has. Actually try to bring these people into your business circle, so that everyone can benefit from everyone.

Be blessed…KuTTy

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June 3. 2009 by admin.

It can be pretty difficult living life without seeking advice from those who are more experienced than you are- unless you’re the stubborn type who’d much rather “learn from your mistakes”. I’ve suddenly been bombarded by the frustration & excitement of prom and graduation and have come to realize that as knowledgeable as the average 16 year old might think they are, they don’t really know anything. I mean c’mon! They have “ideas” for great things (which I love…), but they can’t stop having an attitude long enough to remember they’ve got to put in the work first. So, I command you to teach the youth. Talk to the youth. Once you get past the tough exterior they often cling to like a “NEW Boo!”, you’ll learn that they’re pretty interesting characters. Stop shaking your head! You used to be just like them, so stop frontin’! But all jokes aside, talk to them about everything and anything- from finances to fashion. Believe me… it might surprise you how much they really know, and we’re never too old to learn something new. Right? You’ll be doing something positive to impact someone’s life and that’s always a great feeling.

DRE.B.EZ

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May 27. 2009 by admin.

Seize the day! Sometimes life takes you from a dead zone- where you wish you were doing all of the things you need to do to get to your goal in life, to almost chaos where you feel you don’t even have time to be you. What I want all of us to do is to remember all of those times where you were sitting thinking and not doing. While things are busy, remember your goals and actively pursue them so that your progress is always moving forward rather than nowhere.

Be blessed…KuTTy

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May 20. 2009 by admin.

Why do we find so much excitement in the things that we shouldn’t be doing.  I can’t even explain how I always allow myself to get into situations that I know are wrong from the very beginning, but can’t seem to stop myself. I don’t know if it’s that I crave excitement or if I’m just a glutton for punishment. I strongly believe that if you play with fire long enough you get used to the burns. If your immune to consequences then what is there to motivate you to make better choices? I’m still searching.

Stay up and catch my swag
FaBid

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May 13. 2009 by admin.

This Life is filled with ups and downs, but it’s all about how well you play the cards you’ve been dealt. It’s just like a game of spades- you can either ‘Play to Win’, or you can ‘Play to Last’. The contender that ‘plays to win’ seizes all opportunities to advance to the next level, leaving ZERO room for error and always has in the back of their mind the notion that: “I must conquer everything thrown my way in order to ensure the win!” While, the contender that ‘plays to last’ might always advance to the next level, but it’s not always accomplished through skill- more than likely, it’s by the skin of their teeth. When life throws you its curveballs, you can either strike out because you weren’t ready and didn’t know it was coming, or you can smash that ball past the outfield and out the park because you were prepared. What type of contender are you?

DRE.B.EZ

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May 6. 2009 by admin.

What do you expect from your friendships? When you decide to make someone your friend is there a rule book for what a friendship should entail? Lately I have been questioning that because I always thought that loyalty, caring for others needs sometimes before your own, and of course genuine love was what everyone uses as a rubric for friendship. I love my friends and wouldn’t change them for the world, but friendships change and it’s about understanding the change, knowing and wanting to change for the sake of keeping the evolving friendship. What do your rules of friendship contain? I’m really interested in hearing your responses.

Be blessed…KuTTy

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April 29. 2009 by admin.

Life is a trip, or am I? I’m definitely trippin’ and self-evaluation is so necessary. I don’t know if it’s the universe, karma or God- but things always have a way of coming back around and smacking you in the face. My mother often told me to “treat people the way you want them to treat you” and that has never meant more to me in the past than it does now. Unless you know yourself and are able to be honest with yourself, you will never really know how you want to be treated and will ultimately not know how to treat others. Take some time & get into yourself!

Stay up and catch my swag.
FaBid

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April 22. 2009 by admin.

This Life is a trip! I’ve always been told “it’s not what you know, but who you know” and this statement definitely holds true to this day. As I reflect back on my life, I’ve realized that any advancements I’ve made toward my future endeavors have been done via referrals. The referral is your foot in the door and then it’s your actual talent & power to produce that’ll land you your next big accomplishment. Times sure have changed and in order to avoid being left behind- you have to roll with the punches! You never know… the stranger sitting next to you on the train might just be the answer to the very question that’s been rattling your brain the entire way home. They might know someone, who knows someone… and before you know it, problem’s solved AND you’ve made a few acquaintances you can call on down the line! So remember- in this day in age, you gotta speak up whether it’s face-to-face, via e-mail or on any of these communication sites [i.e. MySpace, Facebook, Twitter] because that’s what they’re designed for. A closed mouth sure doesn’t get fed, and I’m sure we’re all hungry for something, right?

DRE.B.EZ

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April 15. 2009 by admin.

It is always unfortunate when someone you’ve met while on life’s journey drops out of the race early. You think to yourself I wonder how they spent their last moment or if they were ready when the end came to greet them. I always believed that when our spirit prepares to leave our body, we somehow know- like a sixth sense. One day- unfortunatly/fortunately- we will all come to know.

 Be Blessed…KuTTy

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April 8. 2009 by admin.

Everyday brings along obstacles which often result in some lesson learned that you will carry with you. Starting this website has put the BKBOYEEZ in the public arena, but with public access comes scrutiny. As people, we are prone to form and express our opinions sometimes without all of the required information. Unfortunately, feedback is not always given a warm reception- be it negative or positive, especially when you’re sensitive about your $*@#! I’m slowly learning that all feedback is good feedback whether the opinion being expressed is shared or not. We are an open book and all is welcome.

Stay up and catch my swag.
FaBid

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April 1. 2009 by admin.

When I was younger, my mom always had to remind me that “no man is an island”. Back then I was an independent kid- always up for the next challenge and would rather accomplish a task on my own instead of taking someone else’s advice or utilizing their help. I’m a Leo, so I guess the young cub in me wanted to know- when it was all said and done, I did it by myself. It’s that personal gratification we all needed to grow as children and somehow, many of us have taken it into our adult lives. But as much as we may gripe about one another, in all actuality- we need each other. We all possess special gifts and wouldn’t be able to showcase them without the existence of others. The BKBOYEEZ wouldn’t be able to bring you the quality of content we publish, unless we put all of our talents together in order to do so. But most importantly, we wouldn’t be able to showcase our ideas unless we had loyal readers- like yourself, to inspire us to continue our efforts. It’s all along the lines of that whole “one hand washes the other/six degrees of separation” thing and a general part of the basic cycle of life. So I challenge you to keep making great first impressions, utilize every opportunity to meet new people, and be kind and courteous to all because it’s a small world out there! As cliche as it may sound, what goes around comes back around. Mankind is interconnected in many shapes and forms, and we cannot thrive if we try to isolate ourselves from one other. There’s a thin line between individuality and being totally detached from every thing around you. Do you straddle the fence on this life lesson or have you chosen a stance?

DRE.B.EZ

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March 25. 2009 by admin.

We all personally know what we have to do become the best that we can be. So, why don’t we all as Nike says “just do it”? It’s like having a treasure map in your back pocket and only taking it out to admire it rather than running with it. Remaining focus, humble, and faithful to our goal are rudiments to our formula. So let’s grab this treasure map, get the tools, and run to our goal because the ages of excuses are over.

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March 18. 2009 by admin.

Trust is a tricky thing- first, one must learn to trust themself. You could never know what someone is thinking all the time. We can only go by people’s actions so watch carefully.

Stay up and catch my swag.

FaBid

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March 11. 2009 by admin.

We all think we’re grown, but in what sense? Is it because you’re on your own and out of your moms crib? Maybe its because you have a kid, so now you have priorities? Or you could be shacked up with your ideal job- or any job for that matter, and just feel established. Whatever! Whether this is your life or maybe parts of it is, you’re not truly grown until you’ve learned from the curve-balls life throws at you. Life has been playing batting practice with me lately and aside from the occasional bruises, finally, things are starting to make sense. For instance, living on your own is not as wonderful as I imagined it to be. I thought I’d be living alone at this point in my life, but circumstances and a poor economy have it where I’m just not. But I would have it no other way. As cliche as it sounds, everything happens for a reason, and I’m happy to be living with a creative bunch of artists and young entrepreneurs. It drives me to go for mine even more! I have no real complaints and its in that sense, where I’m beginning to truly see the self-development. The frivolous things I used to beef about aren’t as pressing as they once were. I can now look back and see how I’ve grown since that friendship/relationship gone awry, that unforgettable “accident” spawned from careless intimacy or just sheer stupidity on my behalf. I’m evolving, but I’m not grown yet. Wisdom comes with age, and I want to age like a fine wine. But in the meantime, I’m using these experiences as stepping stones that will lead to my deluxe apartment in the sky! …And I’m not talking along the lines of the Jeffersons either- more like, the Trumps. Get in the elevator and press P… I’ll meet you at the TOP!

DRE.B.EZ

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March 4. 2009 by admin.

THIS LIFE is a weekly installment in which the BKBOYEEZ discuss an issue or situation that’s common to us all and ways to handle it. This week I, KuTTy- would like to talk about a little something that gets worn out from time to time: patience. We are all waiting for something these days- unemployment checks, employment opportunities, the Spring, our big break, the perfect companion, relief from the economic crisis, and the list can go on forever. I believe that in the midst of waiting for the turmoil to past, it’s about what you are doing while you wait for the relief that’s most essential. I believe in making every moment count even in times where everything seems to be going nowhere. Isn’t that what it means to make the most out of life? So let’s not waste time grappling over what’s supposed to be happening. Live in the here and now, embrace the present, and wait PATIENTLY for whatever is to come for the future.

Be blessed…KuTTy

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